Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Swim, Bike, Run



I have been 30 for one week. Growing up I thought 30 seemed old. Now I realize how foolish I was to think that. The truth is that I still feel like I am in my early twenties. The only time I get freaked out is when I hear that the freshman class for BYU this year was born in 1992. That is insane.

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Here I am on my birthday thinking I was about to go on a date with my hubby.

I am choosing to embrace this new decade of life. I have lots more wrinkles and gray hairs than I thought I would, but I also have a house full of people that love me and that I love too. I also have a goal. (This is all inspired by my brother the wolf.) I am going to do a sprint triathlon in August. It is at Camp Pendleton in San Diego, and it will be a 500 yard swim (open ocean!), 30k bike ride, and a 5k run. All of that is scary to me, but I figure that is a good thing.


Anyone want to join me?


Monday, February 22, 2010

February 21, 2010

February 21, 2010


Dear Family and Friends,


Our lives are starting to feel normal again after all the snow and school/work closings. Monday found me still in Utah enjoying a “Clark Sister’s” weekend. We were having a great time. We spent the day visiting; we did a little shopping and even got to visit with my sister E. The time went too quickly, and before we knew it was time to pack and get things together.

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The next morning half of the women were gone on an early flight. J and I spent some time with Annie and Orva. J loved the dog at the house. It was a pretty big dog, but J didn’t mind at all when then dog would smell him and give him kisses. Later that morning my sister E picked me up and we went to breakfast with my brother Skate. We went to Magleby’s Fresh, and it was delicious! After breakfast I dropped off Skate at his classes. I then ran a few errands and then went back and picked him up and he drove J and me to the airport. Everything went really well, and we made good time, got all checked in etc. The flights went really well. The best part was that J slept nearly the whole way from Las Vegas to DC. It was such a great early birthday present. When I landed in DC it was near midnight and so a friend picked me up from the airport so that M wouldn’t have to bring the kids. It felt good to be home and in my own bed.

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J really couldn’t get enough of Skate.


Wednesday morning was a return to almost normal. B-man had a one hour delay on school. Even with the delay I almost didn’t wake up in time to get him to the bus! I spent the morning working on unpacking and getting some laundry started. I also spent the time looking around the house for surprises from M. Once again he was very busy while I was gone. He not only cleaned the house, but he also had recessed lighting put in, re-caulked our bathtub, and a bunch of other little projects. The recessed lighting is on our main floor, and it makes such a difference! I can read in there now! That night M tricked me. He told me to be ready to go to dinner after the boys were in bed, but actually it was some of my friends that kidnapped me and took me to dinner for my birthday. It was a fun night with delicious food. The day went much too quickly, I’m so glad we like to stretch out birthdays around here.

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Thursday was more laundry and organizing of things around the house. We hit the grocery store too to stock up on some needed things. I stopped by a friend’s house to pass the afternoon a little faster too. Thursday night I went to my first swimming class. I was a little nervous. I know how to swim, but I’m looking for a little help with my stroke and breathing. Turns out I am not as good of a swimmer in real life as I am in my head. Most of the class was bits of a controlled drown. I am not the worst in the class though. One brave woman is such a bad swimmer that it is painful to watch the teacher work with her. My friend is taking the class with me, and it was fun to have a friend there to eliminate some of the awkwardness.


Friday was a relaxing day. We used one of my birthday coupons for dinner. B-man thought it was great. After dinner M went to help one of our friend’s moves. He was there for several hours, but was grateful for the large crew that the home owner had recruited on his own to make the move go faster. We have a new appreciation for people that organize their move.

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Saturday was a very busy day. It started with two things at the same time. My basketball game and B-man’s Primary party. I went alone to the basketball game, and M took B-man to the party. After playing a very fun game I then drove and picked up B-man from the party. We came home and were able to relax for a while. B-man and M ran a few errands together while J and I stayed at home. Later that afternoon the pace of the day picked up again. We took B-man to his first indoor soccer class. It was mostly a lot of running, and some dribbling with a soccer ball thrown in, but he loved it! It was a crack-up to watch him run with so much intensity. Immediately after the class we went to his school carnival. I have very fond memories of the carnival at my elementary school growing up. It was the IMG_0194highlight of the year. This one seemed was too crowded (it was indoor, ours was outside) but I think B-man liked it. Everything took longer than we thought it would, and so we ended up in a panic to get rid of our tickets and get home so that M could make it to a baptism. We did take a try at the cake walk. It was a tradition in our family growing up. We were thrilled when B-man won on our first try! We hurried home from the carnival and M hurried to go the baptism. I then worked on getting B-man and J ready for bed, while also getting myself ready for a Valentine’s party. It was a crazy hour, but somehow it all came together. I did have to leave the house a mess, but oh well, there are worse things. For the party we were supposed to dress as a celebrity couple, and after much debate we went as Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. The party was fun and we were happy to win third place in the couple competition. After a fun night we headed home and collapsed into bed.

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Today has been a great day. M had meetings in the morning and came home to report that next week I wouldn’t have to give a lesson because there was going to be a special meeting to announce new boundary changes. Church went really well, except for a wiggly J. M was surprised to find out (only minutes before) that he needed to give the lesson in EQ because the teacher had disappeared from church. Thankfully J held it together during his lesson and played on the floor. Seriously a small miracle. After church we came home and got immediately to work on dinner. It was a new recipe that turned out delicious. It was also easy which makes it a plus.


We love you all!

R, M, B-man, and J

Sunday, February 14, 2010

February 14, 2010

February 14, 2010


Dear Family and Friends,


This has been a long, snow filled week.


I spent most of the days cleaning up snow over this week. It helped that the government has been closed most of the week. It was amazing how much snow has been sitting around. B-man has been spending so much of the time outside….

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R went to the church on Tuesday morning to have a morning-mutual activity. She brought B-man along with her so that he could run around in an enclosed facility. Later that evening we went to a birthday party where they have a lot of blow-up jumping things. Even the parents were allowed to participate. It was a great way to get out some energy before the next storm hit.

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Wednesday was a white-out, blizzard. It was not worth going outside. We could hardly see across to the townhomes behind our home. I spent most of the day talking with Southwest airlines, trying to get R on to the next available flight (after getting bumped because of the weather) and we found the earliest flight available (Saturday afternoon). After a few hours of shoveling in the afternoon we went over to our friends for dinner…driving slowly and carefully.


Thursday I relaxed inside while R went outside to sled with B-man.


I went back to work for a few hours on Friday. I had worked extra hours the week before (trying to make up time, so that while R was in Utah I could spend time with B-man) so I was only in the office for a few hours. B-man went to another birthday party this afternoon and after coming home we had our standard Friday-Pizza party.

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J gets some great “bed-head.”

On Saturday R was finally able to get out to Utah. After dropping her off at the airport, B-man and I dropped off a dresser that we were selling on Craigslist. We got back and went sledding with some friends (until she hurt her lip/tooth) and then we started some projects around the house.


After church on Sunday we went over to our friends’ house for a Valentines dinner. It was nice to be able to spend time with other people, even though R had only been gone for one day. I’m sure that B-man was even more excited to be able to spend time with other people than just me.


B-man has been saying, over and over, that it is “so quiet around here.” It’s kind of surprising that he would notice that it so quiet…when he usually is the one making all of the noise.

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B-man and I played a lot of games of Stratego while R was gone. B-man liked to make up his own rules about how his people could move across the board, but we enjoyed ourselves.


While the boys were at home I had fun with J at our Clark Sisters’ weekend. Sadly I missed A’s harp recital, but was able to meet up with everyone afterwards. We had a great weekend of visiting, playing Rook and laughing. The time went much too quickly.


We love you all!

R, M, B-man, and J

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

More Snow…

Here are some more snow pictures…

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Aren’t these hats adorable?  They are handmade, but not by me, by someone much cooler and craftier.

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Here’s M working on the second car.

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The neighborhood kids.

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J loved being in the snow.  He didn’t seem to mind the gear, cold, or me taking a million pictures.

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Here are a few snow perspective pictures.

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One of Those Days

About a week ago, I stopped for a minute and looked at my kitchen. It was a disaster to say the least. Here is the recipe for my disaster…

Take a trip to the grocery store.

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Add in making a batch of bread.

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While bread is rising make lunch. But don’t clean it up. You only have one hand since a baby is in the other hand…

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Eventually J took a nap and B-man was distracted enough so that I could attack the mess and get it done. Of course then it was time for dinner.


Perfect Timing

My friend "Show" has perfect timing. We got a mysterious package in the mail on Friday before we left town for the wedding reception. When we opened it up we discovered that it had a book on Star Wars in it. The book is amazing and B-man has not stopped looking at it since. It was the perfect book for the car drive. He looked at it for at least two hours.

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Thank you Show!

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February 7, 2010

February 7, 2010

Dear Family and Friends,

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J playing in the car. I had to get creative with the trash bucket.


The week started off with us still in the Charlotte, NC area. We got up in the morning and had a very slow start. B-man got to go swimming in the pool, and J even liked putting his little toes in. We then packed up the car and headed home. The roads were all nice and clear. We stopped a few times, once for food and gas, and the other time to shop for furniture. High Point, NC is a well known furniture outlet area. We didn’t really know much so we just picked a random shop, and were disappointed. Next time we will go and be a little more informed. We then headed off for the rest of the trip. We tried to find a Sonic on the way home for some drinks, but the address we had must have been for a future Sonic because there was nothing there. M was so disappointed about that one. B-man did great on the drive. J was pretty frustrated at times. But we made it. We made it home, and had time to get the boys to bed and then unwind ourselves a bit too.

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B-man on the way home.


Tuesday was back to the normal routine, school, work, etc. I was supposed to have mutual that night, but we didn’t because there was a snow storm.

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My view of M for most of the drive.


Wednesday we woke up to about six inches of snow. B-man’s school was cancelled and we had a fun day at home. The snow was easy to shovel and was a fun break. Early in the morning our friend’s dropped off their almost 2 year old. She spent the day with us while her brothers and parents went skiing at a nearby resort. The day went really well. B-man played in the snow. Helped me with the little girl, and before I knew it the day was over. We ended up having the whole family of the little girl over for dinner that night. (I had made extra and no one wants to cook after a long day on the slopes.)

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Thursday was a normal slow day. Not much to report. Friday was when all the good stuff started happening. Friday the state was under a state of emergency for a big storm coming through. That meant that B-man had the day off from school. M went into work in the morning, and then was given four hours off by the government. That meant that he got home right before the snow started sticking. It was a little funny for everyone to be home, and not have snow on the streets, but it was great. We got Pho soup from a local place for lunch and just enjoyed being hunkered down together. The snow really started to stick during the afternoon. That night we had pizza for dinner and then put the boys to bed. We had a lot of snow by the time the boys were in bed. That night M and I watched 24. By the time we went to bed, the snow had grown exponentially. There was well over a foot by midnight. Although it was hard to tell how much since we were staying inside. Right as we were going to bed we noticed that there was a strange green flash going on outside, and then immediately after the power would go out. We think a transformer was having issues. But the flashes were BRIGHT. Large enough for me to notice them with the blinds down.

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You can’t tell, but our mini-van is somewhere under all that snow.


The next morning I fed J around five and while I was feeding him the flashes started again, and then the power went out for good. We woke up and had a pretty quiet morning. We were grateful to have a gas stove so that we could cook something warm to eat. The house was pretty chilly, but we all just put on extra layers. We spent the time reading, playing games, and watching the snow fall. B-man and M walked to check on a single woman that lives relatively close to us. She did not have gas to cook with, so M then walked back over to take her some canned fruit, tuna, etc. B-man didn’t go the second time. Walking through the snow was a lot of hard work for both of them and they were soaking wet when they got back. Eventually M headed outside to start shoveling. We had at least thirty inches of snow, but it may have even been closer to three feet. Thankfully the snow stopped in the afternoon. M and our neighbors worked and worked on clearing the snow. It’s like eating an elephant. You just have to do it one scoop at a time. The men in our area of the neighborhood did such a good job though. Our area is the best cleared by far. We can actually see the entire pavement and see our cars. Most of the roads only have room for one car and still have a pretty good layer of snow. B-man spent most of the day outside playing with the other neighborhood kids and “helping” shovel. Around three o’clock the power went back on. We were so grateful to not have to go a night with no power. Our house got down to 62 degrees, (which wasn’t that bad) and then quickly got back up to our normal temperature. Everyone was pretty tired after a long day of shoveling. M also helped to implement the Stake’s Emergency Preparedness plan and was doing a calling tree to check on families and make sure they were okay.

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J all bundled up with the power out. M is taking a shoveling break.


Sunday we had no church. There were a lot of families that were still stuck in their houses, with their streets unplowed. Because our street is not a city street the HOA had a snow plow truck come through. Most of the day was spent uncovering M’ car, and helping other people get their cars and sidewalks plowed. M worked a long day shoveling. It was a beautiful day though, the sun was shining and it wasn’t super cold. B-man loved being outside again. I took J out for a little bit, and he was so happy to get out of the house. He didn’t even mind sitting in the snow. Late in the afternoon M finally came in. We then had our own little Sacrament meeting. The Stake President had given permission for people to hold their own meetings with their families. It was really simple, but very nice too. We then headed over to a friend’s house for dinner. She made a great chili with bacon, pork, and beef! We spent the evening there and then headed home.

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B-man drinking hot chocolate.


What a crazy snow weekend this has been. There’s more coming too! We love you all!

R, M, B-man, and J

January 31, 2010

January 31, 2010


Dear Family and Friends,


We have had a great week here. Monday was a quiet day. For FHE we talked about our life before Earth and how we chose to come to Earth. Tuesday we played basketball at the church before going to Young Women’s.


Wednesday I took J to the doctor. It was officially his six month check-up (late of course) but it was also just a check of him since he still has his pesky cold/cough. His lungs and ears were clear, and he tested negative for RSV. So we left hoping he would be better soon. The one complication was that it took much longer than it normally did at the doctors just to be seen, and I realized that I would not be at the bus stop to pick up B-man. For kindergarteners, if you are not at the bus stop they take the child back to school and try and find the parent or guardian. I called M, but the reception was terrible in the office, and through a very disjointed conversation we were able to get the message across for him to call our next door neighbor to get him. Technically we were supposed to call the school too, but the bus driver was very nice (and trusting) and let him get off. When I got home about twenty minutes later he was happily playing at their house. I stayed and chatted with my neighbor for a while before heading home. We really love our neighbors, they are great people. That same day M went to the doctor to get his leg checked again. The doctor took the stitches out. That is the good news, that bad news is that now poor M has developed an ulcer on his leg. So he is still a long way away from a healed leg. There’s nothing to be done about the ulcer. It just needs time to heal.

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B-man doing his thing at the hotel. He was watching t.v.


Thursday was a quiet day at the house. I was supposed to go visiting teaching, but it got cancelled at the last minute. That night I went to book club. We read Left to Tell: Discovering God amidst the Rwandan Holocaust. It was such an interesting book, and I really admired the woman in the book. It is very similar to a modern version of The Hiding Place.

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B-man in the pool, the lens fogged up so we had to do some artsy stuff.


Friday morning I went to play basketball at the church with the women. It was a small group, and I didn’t get much playing in since I was holding J most of the time. It was still fun though. The rest of the day went pretty quickly. After lunch we did head over to a friend’s house. B-man played while she and I visited. It’s a good way to pass the time. M got home and then we did a small little party with B-man. That night M went to get-together with a bunch of guys. They had a great time. I spent the time finishing packing and getting ready for our weekend trip the next day.

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B-man swimming, and J putting his toes in.


Saturday morning we were up and going early. I went with B-man and played in our ward basketball game. Then we headed home. M had the car all packed and ready to go. I fed J, changed, and we started off. The only problem was that there was a big snow storm hitting right as we left. For a few hours we were just fine, but just when we thought “these roads are starting to look bad…” we were about half way there, and didn’t quite know what to do. We decided to keep going. The drive was only supposed to take about six and a half hours, (to Charlotte, NC) but it ended up taking closer to nine hours. The plan was that we would get to our hotel, play, (I could shower…) and then we would head back to the wedding reception. Instead we went straight to the reception that was already half over. We changed into better clothes and then went and said hello. My cousin had gotten married two weeks earlier in Idaho, and it was great to see her and meet her new husband. The people that had braved the snow storm to go the reception could not believe that we had driven from Virginia in the storm. North Carolina only gets storms like this about once every five years. We were crazy, but we were thankful that we made it safely. After the reception, M dropped me off to get some things at Wal-Mart while he got some dinner. It’s a trip to Wal-Mart I would like to forget. No workers to check out the people, and the customers were trying to buy the craziest things in the self-checkout line. We finally made it to our hotel. We were all wasted, but happy for a nice comfy place to stay.


Sunday morning we had a very leisurely morning. Church was cancelled in Charlotte so we didn’t have any real agenda. We started off eventually and headed to do some exploring. We wanted to drive and see downtown Charlotte. We first started with the Lowe’s Motor Speedway. It was huge and we wished we could have been able to actually see the track. We had planned on seeing the UNC campus, but then we found out that it was not the main campus. We drove through and around the downtown exploring the area. Eventually B-man insisted that we go visit “the girl” from the reception. So we drove and visited with my cousin and her husband in their home. They were so cute with B-man and really made him feel comfortable. They gave him a little Asian parasol, that he has carried around with him ever since. After leaving their house we walked through a big outdoors store that had stuffed (real) animals that we could look at. B-man liked all the different animal footprints in the cement too. We then headed back to the hotel for some dinner and then bed. We had B-man on the pull-out couch, and then we put J in the bathroom in his pack-n-play. It meant we had to do a little planning since we didn’t have access to the bathroom from seven on.


We love you all!

R, M, B-man, and J

Sunday, February 7, 2010

We're Alive!

We're Alive! School was cancelled Friday, and will be closed Monday and Tuesday too. Church was cancelled today too. We had no power for about ten hours, and about 30" of snow. Right now the men are out pulling the "ox/car" out of the "mire/snow". Pictures to come...